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Fashion Feng Shui Workshop

You're Exclusively Invited to My Intimate Fashion Feng Shui Workshop

Saturday, May 20th / 10am-3pm / Sammamish, WA

  • I am personally inviting you to my Fashion Feng Shui workshop!
  • Have you ever had an important event coming up and wondering what to wear?
  • Would you love to have a wardrobe that is aligned with how you want to show up and be seen? A wardrobe that gives you confidence?
  • A wardrobe that brings you compliments?
  • A wardrobe that is comfortable?
  • A wardrobe that is aligned and supports your goals and desires?

IF YOU ANSWERED YES TO ANY OR ALL OF THESE QUESTIONS, THIS WORKSHOP WAS MADE FOR YOU!

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“To the Woman Who Desires To Be the Leading Lady in Her Own Life”

What is Fashion Feng Shui: Dressing Your Whole Self from the Inside-Out

You are the sum of your parts – spirit, mind, and body. When you address every aspect of yourself – spiritual, mental and physical you are able to create a wardrobe that is fulfilling, flattering and functional.

Fashion Feng Shui is a Transformation Triad

Fashion Feng Shui

 

This Workshop Accesses:

Your Essence

By consciously honoring your essence in your clothing choices, you communicate your authentic self to others.

Self-confidence requires authenticity. Your essence aligns with your core values and innate traits.

Who are you – what makes you tick. What is most important to you? Are your values being expressed in your life?

Your Intention

Defines your ideal self – who would you be if there were no limits

When you dress with purpose, your clothes are supporting you and serving you in life.

By dressing with design elements that align with your hopes and dreams you naturally magnetize your appearance and attract these desires into your life.

Your Appearance

Your appearance aligns with your body’s natural coloring and body shape.

When the energy of your clothing is in harmony with your physical self, your attire naturally flatters you and your personal style communicates confidence.

Conscious clothing choices communicates personal harmony and naturally creates an attractive presence.

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How-to dress with style, confidence and ease without having to worry about age, shape or size!

  1. By understanding your FFS Triad you will be begin to understand what colors, styles, shapes, and design elements are in perfect harmony with the real you. Why you are attracted to certain pieces more than others. And why you don’t like certain styles and colors.
  2. You’ll learn how to incorporate your essence into every outfit you wear so others see your authenticness which ultimately communicates confidence.
  3. Uncover your ideal self and how you want to show up in the world and what does that look like in your clothing choices.
  4. How to attract your dreams and desires into your life with what you wear.
  5. A personalized More Alive With Color consultation – discover your Colortime Palette™
  6. Learn the psychology of color and how to use it as a tool to attract more into your life.
  7. Understand what styles flatter your body type.
  8. Learn how to shop with ease and purpose – what to say yes to and what to say no to.
  9. How to feel comfortable and confident every time you get dressed.
  10. And finally, leave with a vision to “Reveal Your Radiance” while building your dream wardrobe that exudes confidence.

I can't wait to see you there! ONLY 3 Spots Left!!

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Style vs. Salary: Does Your Appearance Impact Your Career

I just read an article published by payscale.com.

Does Your Appearance Impact Your Career?

The data says yes.

Payscale surveyed 34,000 employees in November 2016-January 2017 and asked “Which of the following best describes your company dress code?”

  • Business formal (tie + jacket for men, pant- or skirt-suits for women)
  • We have specific work uniforms
  • Casual (The Zuckerberg – anything goes within reason)
  • Business casual (no jeans, sneakers, flip flops, etc.)

They found that if you want to make the big bucks you're likely dressing up a bit more for work - relating to the financial or insurance industry.

Companies that have a "business formal dress code" have the highest median salary. (the survey included financial and insurance industry)

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Business casual dress had the 2nd highest median salary.

When broken down by the income-level of workers, they found that a business casual dress code dominated every level of income and across a multitude of industries.

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TIP! Adding the orange and poke-a-dot skirt just gave the look a little more playfulness and less formal.

I remember being taught years ago that even though you work from home, you should still dress up like you're going into the office. Why, it effects your frame of mind.

Possibly more confident while talking on the phone with clients?

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I love the subject of confidence.

You may have had an experience when you "nailed" "your style" whether it was for work or maybe a date night.

You know how you felt.

How others reacted to you.

The compliments you received.

And how it made you feel.

Over the top C-O-N-F-I-D-E-N-T...am I right?

Bottom line: I believe you need to walk out the door each morning feeling CONFIDENT in your dress so you can forget about what you're wearing and do what you do best.

TIP! Are you consciously using your clothing and grooming, especially when dressed down, as valuable business assets and high-powered tools to propel you toward greater success?

Hi I’m Annette!

As a certified Personal Image consultant, color expert and Fashion Feng Shui facilitator I am dedicated to helping you reveal your radiance and dress with style and intentionality for your professional lifestyle. 

I am passionate about supporting you so that age, shape, or size are no longer in the way while aligning your style with the real you.  So you can walk into the world with more confidence and make a great first impression that is authentically yours!

Do You Feel Like You Need a New Wardrobe?

I was at Tempo and Nordstrom in Bellevue, WA this week picking up spring clothing to showcase at my speaking engagement for the Overlake Hospital Auxiliary group.

I think I am like a kid in a toy store loving all the new colors, styles and accessories that are out for spring.

One of the tips I will be shared with the ladies is, what do you have in your closet from last year (that is last spring) that really worked for you? Vs. feeling like you need an entire new wardrobe.

A piece that you felt confident in.

Maybe you received a lot of compliments.

It fit really well.

It became a great go-to-piece.

Maybe it was a great pair of pants or sweater.

 

Pull a piece from your closet and ask yourself, how can I refresh this piece with a new color, an accessory, or what do I need to add to give it that Spring 2017 current feel?

Check, Stripes, Floral, Stripe & Floral mixed, Check and Floral mixed - Have FUN with your new spring pieces.

Confidence - begin with a wardrobe piece that you already feel confident in.

ONE piece- take ONE piece and add your uniqueness.

If you've thought about the two of us working together in the past and know it's your time....

I am planning a small intimate Fashion Feng Shui hands on training session at my home in Sammamish, WA for 8 magnificent ladies who truly desire to Reveal Your Radiance. I'm excited to announce that I have set a date for this one-of-a-kind workshop.

 If you would like to be considered for one of the 8 spots, let me know below. 

The date will be Saturday, May 20th from 10-3pm.

Dressing Your Essence

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J'envie clothing - available at www.tempoclothing.com

J'envie clothing - available at www.tempoclothing.com

 

Dressing Your Essence, Reveal Your Radiance

Recently I was browsing the internet looking to see what others were saying about style for the Over 50 Woman.  I came across several YouTube videos by How To.com and About.com that I thought no wonder women are so confused. There were tips such as only wear solids, do not wear a shawl collar because that signifies you are old. Make sure you wear only very classic looks.

What I found is nothing about the “real you”, only age. 

I don't know what age I was when I discovered very early on what I liked and didn't like in my style.  I could look in the mirror and say yes or no quickly.  There was a look I was going for. I became very intentional and purposeful on the pieces I chose.

Most of what we learn is to "dress with the fashion" or "dress for success".  It's not wrong, just confusing as we sift through all the information. 

We as women are multi-faceted and I believe that is what our clothes should reveal.  Our clothing tells a story about who we. My passion is to help you tell that story, and reveal your radiance.

To begin Revealing Your Radiance, start with the essence of who you are. What pieces of clothing do you love in your wardrobe? What pieces do you forget about as you're wearing them because they're just part of who you are? What pieces give you complete confidence? Make you walk taller? Speak a little more boldly? And maybe draw the eye of everyone in the room?

Clothes that make you feel "in your element."

It might be the style, the color, the silhouette?

1.  Are those pieces dark colors, fluid fabrics, artistic or asymmetric shapes?

2. Are those pieces casual styling, sporty, natural fabrics, green or blue?

3. Are those pieces bright colors, dramatic, red or purple?

4.  Are those pieces earth tones, textured fabrics, classic styling

5. Are those pieces elegant, polished fabrics, curved shapes, pale or metallic colors?

 Identify if you are a dominant 1, 2, 3, 4, or 5.

 The next time you're choosing an outfit make sure one of those specific elements are part of your outfit.

Have you noticed you love uniqueness in the detail of a jacket? Maybe the cut is just a little different and that is what attracted you. If you know you like a pinch of drama it could be your red lipstick or fuchsia pumps. Your sportiness could be a pair of pants vs. a skirt. Your metallic could be in the shoes or a jewel neckline vs. a V-neck.  Have you noticed you love texture? It will also help you identify why you DON'T like about a certain piece.  Maybe "in your element" characteristics are missing that are special to you.

 As I mentioned above, we are multi-faceted and you may have several of the above elements in your outfit. Maybe all five.  But you have a dominant that allows you to Reveal Your Radiance and capture your essence.

 

Do You Have The Ugly Shoe Syndrome?
Create Comfortable Shoe Options

 

Comfortable shoes are such a hot topic for women over 50

I hear all the time, “I can’t find cute comfortable shoes”, and so I wear ugly shoes. I’m an image consultant and that statement makes me cringe (sorry girls). I have to admit that stylish shoes has always been important even though they are a little uncomfortable. Suck it up girls, I used to think.

Not until recently have I given in a bit.  With all the personal shopping I do for clients, the feet get grouchy to the point where they can make me tired. So, I have been on a mission over the last 4-6 months to search out what’s available in shoes that are cute, comfortable and NOT UGLY.

I have to admit the first time I walked into the Walking Company in Bellevue Square, I walked right back out and thought I can’t wear these shoes. I’m a stylish girl and I don’t care how comfortable they are I’m not wearing them. Well, as I said my values have changed over the last several months.

I came to the conclusion, I MUST have a comfortable shoe that I can walk in for hours while shopping for clients.

This last fall, I gave in. I went back to the Walking Company and came out with a pair of Raffini bootie shoes. OMG, these shoes changed my life, they had an arch support.  I soon found out that I could walk the mall for hours and tromp in downtown Seattle and my feet were feeling blissful.  I’m finding that every season they continue to come out with more styles and options for us girls over 50.

Unless I’m participating in a 2-hour special event or doing a speaking engagement I now refuse to wear uncomfortable shoes while I work.

I just bought my new spring sandals – Abeo, featuring a built in orthotic system.  They are wonderful! I tried on nearly every pair in the store until I found the right style and fit. Yes, I’m picky. But I use my philosophy that I share with all my clients, “don’t buy it unless you love it”!

What I’ve learned is there are brands that have built in arch support and then there are shoes that have a comfortable shoe bed. Many companies are offering “off the shelf orthotics” that you can slip into your shoes. A lot of stores carry them, find the right fit for you. I have a client that has customized orthotics and she puts them in all her Munro shoes – perfect for her.

I’ve also learned that if you find a brand that fits you well, go online to see other styles. Sometimes your only option is to order the shoes online, try them on a home and then return to your local store. Of course, Zappos is another option.

For the woman who is on her feet, is tired of the ugly shoe syndrome or distressed tootsies, you now have a stylish solution. I hope I given you a place to begin your journey in finding Cute, Comfortable Shoes!

(the above shoe options are from the Walking Company)


Annette Bond is a Personal Image Consultant

She works with professional men and women over 50 who feel ordinary, old or overweight. Annette helps them to reveal their radiance so they can become more of who they are and walk into the world with more confidence and success.

Are you the kind of person who wants to position themselves for success but are lacking confidence in the style department?

And, without a doubt, know you look impeccably "put together" and standout as a leader with confidence in your field?

If you're ready to have that kind of confidence I just described above, let's schedule a time to chat.  Life is too short to keep feeling frustrated every time you have to decide what looks good on you.

annette@annettebond.com or 425-868-1816

What Should You Wear on a Summer Date?

 

What Should You Wear on a Summer Date?

  • To an Art Gallery?

  • Dinner with Girlfriends?

  • A Patio Party?
     

Have you ever been shopping and gazed at a great dress or sandal and wondered, “where would I wear that”?  A summer occasion is the perfect opportunity to add that unexpected piece to your wardrobe.  I think it’s nice to have a few special pieces that you can have distinctively for your weekend gatherings.

This is a time to start building that “hot weather weekend wardrobe”. Spring clothing is on sale and summer apparel is in the stores full swing. You may want to experiment with a new color or silhouette.  If you’ve had your eye on a beautiful summer dress, it’s time to swoop it up and take your summer style up a notch.

Two Simple Ways To Update This Summer Season:

 

The Maxi Dress or Skirt

A silhouette you wouldn’t necessarily wear to work but a style that’s perfect for summer fun such as dinner dates with girlfriends or to a patio party. The maxi dress gives you a nice elongated look whether you’re short or tall. Don’t hesitate to hem the length to fit your height and shoes. You’re also going to love the ease it gives through the middle and best of all, this dress is so effortless to wear.

Update Your Sandals

I’m loving the color metallic. You will see it incorporated with nude, black, and taupe combination. It will add that glimmer of shimmer that takes your outfit from ordinary to extraordinary.

Styles to look for:

 

The Cage Sandal

For those of you who like a little texture. Many times it comes with a wood heel, which is a little more informal and casual. Pair it with a dress, shorts, or pants. They are great with a solid color, adds a finishing touch of pizzazz.

The Ankle Strap

Gives a little more feminine feel for those of you who love the ladylike or elegance look. They are great with an ankle pant or dress.  An ankle strap sandal delivers the extra +1 for a classy chic presence.

The Mule

The mule is back, though more beautiful than ever. This is a great shoe for your casual cotton pants or long flowy maxi dress. If you dress "Seattle casual" for work, this is also a great alternative.

Have FUN with your summer style!


Annette Bond is a Personal Image Consultant

She works with professional men and women over 50 who feel ordinary, old or overweight. Annette helps them to reveal their radiance so they can become more of who they are and walk into the world with more confidence and success.

Are you the kind of person who wants to position themselves for success but are lacking confidence in the style department?

And, without a doubt, know you look impeccably "put together" and standout as a leader with confidence in your field?

If you're ready to have that kind of confidence I just described above, let's schedule a time to chat.  Life is too short to keep feeling frustrated every time you have to decide what looks good on you.

annette@annettebond.com or 425-868-1816

Style Inspiration: The Summer Dress

Summer is here and we love simple, stylish and effortless!  Who says you can't look cute while playing in the sun?

 

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Where the Wear It:

1. Summer Barbecue

2. At the Park

3. Saturday Errands

4. To the Winery

5. Stay-at-home Mom

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

WHY I LOVE THEM:

1. The Fabric

2. The Color

3. The Simplicity

4. The Style

5. It's Effortless

First Lady Style: 10 Tips from Michelle Obama To Live By

1. Play Up Your Assets

Highlight your best features instead of obsessing over the worst. The First Lady emphasizes her enviable, toned arms in sleeveless sheathes and draws attention to her narrow waistline with side belts.

 

 

2. Choose Your Signature Pieces

Define your style wearing pieces that speak to you. The First Lady sticks too favorites like sleeveless sheathes, a double strand of pearls, headline making cardigan sweaters and belts.

 

 

3. Discover Your Defining Colors

Give black (and navy…and charcoal, etc) a break! Whether you look best in jewel tones or pastels, wearing color brightens your skin tone and can have a similar affect on your mood.

 

 

4. Get a Great Haircut

Invest in a versatile, stylish cut. Also consider the shape of your face, your eyes and cheek bones when making the change.

 

 

5. Don’t Sacrifice Comfort

Who says you have to suffer for fashion or fabulous shoes? When on the move, the First Lady chooses easy cotton sundresses or tailored trousers dressed up with a fitted jacket. For practical and chic shoes, select sleek ballet flats in patent, snakeskin or metallic or classic low pump with a kitten heel.

6. Shop Your Closet

Effortlessly mix and match key separates to create new looks. Take your distinctive marigold cardigan and wear it with a print skirt or with your bright cobalt-blue denim. Take inventory of your closet so you know what’s in there. Need help in the closet…I’m here to assist!

7. Accessorize Like a Pro

Statement jewelry can make an outfit. The First Lady adds over-sized necklaces to classic evening ensembles or fastens her favorite cardigans with a collection of costume brooches. Stick with one statement piece per outfit.

8. Reveal Your Silhouette

Fitted sheaths highlight the First Lady’s’ long, lean line, and full-skirted dresses that draw attention to her small waist. Find cuts that flatter your figure and stick with them. Need help finding those perfect silhouettes for your body type…I’m here to assist!

9. Find Your Resources

Seek out stores with an attentive staff that can do the hard work for you. Shop online with favorite retailers that you have experience with specific designers, brands, and styles.

10. Know When to WOW!

When it’s your time to shine, do it! Next time you’re in the spotlight, don’t be afraid to break from your typical look: choose a knockout number that you and everyone around will buzz about.

Color Can Be Magical!

COLOR can be magical!

How many times have you been ambiguous about what to wear and you look in your closet and find that delicious sunny coral t-shirt that makes you smile and feel good all over? Or you’re out shopping and a rack of beautiful reds and burgundies catch your eye.  For an instant you think, “Wow, I love that”, while thinking oh I could never wear that and you’ve quickly move to the rack of all black.

I want you to STOP right there and start rethinking the way you look at COLOR.  Why did you say, “I can’t wear that”?  Who told you that?  There are comments made in our past by people who most likely we really never took advice from but in one moment a spontaneous statement was made and we have kept it in our mind for years….and have never let go of it.

It’s funny how we do that, isn’t it. Or maybe you had a color analysis done in 1982 and the lady told you these are your “six colors” and red and burgundy are not one of them. You took her at face value and never again tried red or burgundy.

Today, I want you to open your mind to COLOR.  COLOR can be magical.

  • Color can make you feel good

  • Color can be emotional

  • Color can bring out your personality

  • Color can attract others to you

  • Color can be creative

  • Color is inspirational

  • Color can show our feminine side

  • Color can show our masculine side

  • Color can evoke and inspiration

  • Color can stand out in a crowd

  • Color can add a spark to your life

  • Color can bring confidence

If you are one of those people who wear’s alotttttt of black, I invite you to start experimenting. Or maybe you’re just afraid of the reaction you will get by wearing more color. Whatever the reason is you need to start by taking a step into the world of color. I want you to take your favorite black pant with you shopping.  Let’s start with 2 colors.  We’re going to begin by choosing colors that compliment your eyes.  If your eyes are a blend of blue/green then those are the two colors to begin with. If your eyes are brown then I want you to try blue and purple as they are complimentary colors of brown.  If your eyes have a goldy green then you will choose a gold tone yellow and green.  If your eyes are gray, choose a blue and maybe pink.  This is your first assignment in putting to the test the world of COLOR.

As you are choosing your color pieces, you have variety of options.  You could choose a beautifulblouse that may be a solid or print. A beautiful  sweater. Or it could even be larger style statement necklace or scarf. 

Remember this is all about experimenting; you don’t have to buy it. But just try it; you might like it as Dr. Seuss did with green eggs and ham.

I am going to go back to the red and burgundy example at the start of my story, as they are Pantone’s Fall 2014, Aurora Red and Sangria.  Aurora Red and Sangria are what I would call crossover colors and that means everyone looks good in them.  They are colors we see in nature.  Would you ever say your beautiful red geraniums look terrible with the brown dirt – NO.  Would you ever say the burgundy looks very out of place in the evening sunset, heavens no.  There are a set of colors that are eyes are accustomed to seeing in nature and against many backgrounds, these are called crossover colors.

So go out there today and have fun with color. Embrace color. Give it meaning. Pair it with other color combinations and be courageous. Let your personality shine. Show a little of your feminine side. And most of all don’t be afraid to stand out in a crowd because of COLOR.

5 Fall Trends With Timeless Staying Power

1. Plaid

 A classic print that has been around for years but has resurfaced this fall 2014. New color combinations with the classic print make it new and fresh.  Add your plaid shirt to a pair of jeans, topped with a beautiful patterned cape and you’ll be rocking it girl.

2. Gray

Another classic and oh so classy.  The color gray is spilling over into shoes, boots, handbags, prints, sweaters and dresses. It’s a color we see in nature. It’s a relaxing soothing color that looks good on most skin tones. We will continue to see a softer tone of gray this spring.

3. The Overcoat

The fabric, the design, texture and new colors are what make the wool overcoat a standout this season.  It’s not just your basic black and camel coat – you have choices.

4. Patterned Knits

Women are discovering they love pattern and texture. It takes them away from their basic solids. It’s a piece that can be worn on its own and makes a statement in a simple kind of way. Add a simple patterned sweater to a skirt, tights and your bootie shoes and you will be styling and current for the upcoming season.

5. Wild Things

Refined animal prints that have been tamed. They’re small and quiet.  We love our classic brown/gold animal print that pops up every season but the refined prints are for the girls who have been thinking of giving it a try but were still a little hesitant. Want to dabble in the trend, try a snakeskin cross-body bag or sleek open-toe heels or maybe a fun animal print skirt with a solid top to ground the look.

Are You a Red Purse Girl?

Have you been looking for that perfect RED handbag?

The question becomes what style?

What is the function of it? How do you want it to work for you?

Are you too old for Red? No, No, No

The Crossover Bag: 

  1. Perfect to use as an accent color to any outfit.
  2. Great bag when need to just carry your wallet, phone and lipstick.
  3. Make sure you try it on for comfort.
  4. Some are more bulky than others and can add a little extra to the hip area.

The Hobo Bag: 

  1. The rounded corners give it a more casual feel.
  2. Perfect for the dressy casual look.
  3. Love jeans but want to dress them up a notch - a great choice.

The Tote Bag:

  1. Perfect for toting your computer around.
  2. Classy look for carrying to a meeting.
  3. If you plan to carry it on your shoulder, make sure it is comfortable.

The Wristlet: 

  1. Hate purses? An option you may have not considered.
  2. The wristlet/wallet is available in a variety of sizes. What do you want it to hold? Phone, credit card, business cards?
  3. Feel like the bag-lady at times? The Wristletis perfect for putting inside the Tote Bag.

The RED Handbag is a year around color. It can give you the pop of color you're looking for on a gloomy day. Add to your neutrals such as black and gray.

If you love RED and are not incorporating it into your wardrobe...a handbag can be a first step.

RED will get noticed. Not a bag thing in my opinion.


Annette Bond is a Personal Image Consultant who works with professional men and women over 50 who feel ordinary, old or overweight. She helps them to reveal their radiance so they can become more of who they are and walk into the world with more confidence and success.

Are you the kind of person who wants to position themselves for success but are lacking confidence in the style department?

And, without a doubt, know you look impeccably "put together" and standout as a leader with confidence in your field?

If you're ready to have that kind of confidence I just described above, let's schedule a time to chat.  Life is too short to keep feeling frustrated every time you have to decide what looks good on you.

Annette@annettebond.com

3 Ways to Gain More Color Confidence

Color is an interesting subject because it can conjure up so many different meanings and feelings for individuals.

The colors you chose to wear may reflect your personality as an introvert, an extrovert...or maybe you’re trying not to be seen?

Did you grow up with a mother who loved experimenting with color whether it was with clothing or paint?

Or maybe you wore a uniform to school and you now shut down those colors?

We all have a story to tell about color.

I had a personal experience with purple. I realized nothing in my closet was purple nor was I attracted to it. As I thought more about the “why” behind the reason for not being attracted to purple, I realized that was my sister’s color growing up, my color was pink. If there is a color you’re struggling with, I encourage you to dig deeper into why you have that thought and then “attempt” to let go. Move forward with an open mind that allows you to play more and not be so bridled with color apprehension.

I find many people hesitate experimenting with color outside their box for fear of, “what if it doesn’t look good.” They decide on two or three colors that they like and don’t venture far into the creativity realm.

Through my one-on-one Color Image Consultation I am able to give you increased confidence on where to start and objective insight into why a color makes you shine.

Last week I spoke to a group of ladies about creating More Color Confidence

Here are 3 distinct avenues to explore & attain greater color inspiration:

1. Look at your own natural coloring, your hair, eyes and skin tone.

Start by having a friend describe your eye color. I guarantee that many of you will be surprised how complex your eye color can be. Take those specific colors and start experimenting with clothing colors that compliment your eye color.

For example:

Amber golden brown eyes: try a honey gold or tangerine coral color.
Hazel eyes: try a deep teal blue or emerald green.
Light green/blue eyes: try a slate blue, softened green tone or warm pink.

2. Look for inspiration in different mediums, like paintings, beautiful scarves or an outfit in a magazine.

If the color combination catches your eye, try it, experiment, you have nothing to lose.

I recently received a beautiful scarf  as a thank you gift for speaking at the Illuminating Women’s group – I fell in love with the color combination. I began playing in my closet and found I can wear it with my blue sheath dress, my favorite new emerald jacket and use as a pop of color with my white jeans. I’m excited – thank you Cecilia for handpicking this beauty in Italy. What a treat!

3 Use color as a tool to convey the message about how you want to show up in the world.

More professional, add navy, blue tones or gray. More creative, add purples and unexpected combinations such as icy blue to eggplant. Gray and chartreuse. More elegant, add burgundy or teal.

We are smack in the middle of all the vibrancy of spring and summer clothing. Indulge in a new color or new color combination. By adding one new color to your wardrobe this spring, you will have an instant update. That color could be in the form of a necklace, handbag, blouse, or jacket. I stand strong on my philosophy– make sure you can wear that new piece with at least 2-3 pieces in your current wardrobe. You will love the versatility and optimization.

My inspiration for the season is emerald, I’m loving it and can’t wait to acquire more pieces. I’m combining it with soft pink, white, black, navy, denim, icy blue and possibly some fuchsia. Wow, who knew? I also recently came home with a great big tote from target – emerald green, of course.

What is your NEW COLOR for Spring 2016? I’d love to hear how you’re playing with color and new color combinations!


Annette Bond is a Personal Image Consultant who works with the professional over 50 who feel ordinary, old or overweight. She helps them to reveal their radiance so they can become more of who they are and walk into the world with more confidence and success.

Do you need to feel more put-together, current and polished? Does your professional dress need to be taken up a notch?

Email Annette @ annette@annettebond.com to learn about her Reveal Your Radiance Signature Program.

Or visit http://annettebond.com/image-services/

How To Own Your Confident Power Pose
Body language affects how others see us, but it may also change how we see ourselves. Social psychologist Amy Cuddy shows how "power posing" -- standing in a posture of confidence, even when we don't feel confident -- can affect testosterone and cortisol levels in the brain, and might even have an impact on our chances for success.

Amy Cuddy, TED speaker, shares how to use our physiology to gain more self-confidence when we're not feeling it.

She asks the question, "Can you fake it till you make it"?  

She says, yes. As your body is feeling confident and powerful, your mind will follow. She suggests you think of the "wonder woman pose" as a start.

Enjoy the video above to learn more.

3 Tips to Help You Own Your Confident Power Pose:

1. Open Up and Occupy Space

This gives you a secret inner confidence you may be lacking
 

2. Watch the Body Language of Those You Admire

Powerful people tend to be more assertive, confident, and more optimistic. They also think abstract and take more risks. 
 

3. Be Aware of Your Body

Your physiology can change your mind and how you're feeling at the moment.

Understanding what body language does to yourself and not necessarily how it effects others is a very powerful tool to use. I learned from Tony Robbins years ago that what we are feeling or thinking starts with our physiology.  That is, what are we doing with our bodies.

How To Refine & Elevate Your Personal Image Through COLOR

Did you know that color can bring out the color of your hair? This is known as one of your Signature Colors.

Example: Anything yellow or gold is going to highlight (bring forward) the blond tones. Or bring out the blond highlights in brown hair.  This is when others compliment you and say, "wow you look pretty today".  There is a harmony happening with your natural coloring. Yellow is associated with sunshine. Yellow people are highly original, innovative, imaginative, creative and artistic. You are optimistic and encourage others to do their best.

4 Secrets to Help Increase Your Likeability

Your Personal Image + Likeability = The Whole Story

We know you are looking and feeling amazing on the outside but we also know there is more to a person than simply their clothing.  I am fascinated by the Likeability Factor.  I believe the L-Factor can give you that extra edge when making a great first impression and building authentic relationships.

Being a big fan of the TV show, The Voice, I have observed over and over how individuals are voted on by the American public. They may have the best voice ever but if the viewers do not find them likeable…it shows in the voting. On the other hand, we’ve all met those people that we really like, and you may have never given it a second thought to why you like them so much, that is the Likeability Factor at work.

This is an area that I suggest you become more aware of when you are presenting yourself whether for business or pleasure.  I believe it make a big difference in how you are perceived.

4 Elements that Create Your Likeability Factor:

1. Friendliness

Expressing a general positive feeling. If someone perceives that you like them, they will most likely like you back. Without reciprocation, likeability is not likely to happen.

Friendliness is about developing a friendly mind-set. Get rid of unfriendly.

How to show friendly signs:

  • Let them see you SMILE before you say a word
  • When you greet others, lead with your smile
  • Make eye contact
  • Use your eye brows
  • Use your eyes to show emotion
  • Hold your head up when you talk
  • Maintain good posture
  • Use friendly words such as wonderful, excellent, awesome, beautiful, perfect, appreciate, inspiring, etc.
  • Use friendly phrases such as nice to see you, glad you are here, welcome, how can I help, absolutely, and sure.

BE YOURSELF ALWAYS. THIS IS ABOUT BEING A BETTER YOU.

2. Relevance

Relevance is the extent to which the other person connects to your life’s interests, wants and needs. The variable is the strength of the connection. When people connect with one of your high-level interests or needs their relevance to you soars.

3 LEVELS OF RELEVANCE: BASIC CONTACT, MUTUAL INTERESTS, VALUE

How to show relevance:

  • Basic contact: Part of the same group. Live by each other
  • When others are in frequent contact with you, they have a bias to like you
  • Improve the quality of your contacts by staying connected
  • Mutual interests: discover what your contacts interests are. You’re developing commonality. Connect with others wants and needs. The variable is the strength of the connection.
  • Value: if you possess a skill that will help someone complete a task, you are more relevant to that person.
  • Likeability and interests are related, because when two people have a passion in common, they are connected at the sweet spot, which is at the heart of being relevant.

3. Empathy

Can you see things from their point of view? Can you feel what they feel? Can you walk in that persons shoes?

Empathy delivers the psychological benefits, personal worth, how you feel, validated, appreciated, and special.

How to show empathy:

  • If you’re not aware of others’ feelings, you can be perceived as insensitive
  • Don’t interrupt
  • Wear your listening cap. Commit to being a better listener to understand how others feel
  • Ask, don’t tell. Ask for details
  • Remember conversations

4. Realness

We ask the question is this person real? Genuine, trustworthy, authentic. When we search for realness in another person, we recognize it by its absence.

How to show realness:

  • Be true to yourself. You must know the real you.
  • Let your values be your compass as you navigate life.
  • Practice humility. Watch out for exaggeration.
  • Share your realness. Learn to say, “I don’t know.”
  • Be present. Whenever you are with others, be with them 100%.
     

How to Find Your Likeable Self:

1. Try to recall the last time someone paid you a compliment

2. What compliments did you most enjoy receiving?

3. Think about your biggest fan, this person talks about you in glowing terms.

4. What converted her from an acquaintance to a supporter?

5. What would be 2 likeable features she would say?

6. Role model – someone you admire & want to emulate – top 2 features

7. Identify the features that contribute to a high L-factor in yourself and others.

What Others Say About YOU… Be More of That!

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*Information obtained from the book,  The Likeability Factor by Tim Sanders.

How to Increase Your Bottom Line, Lipstick in Hand

Over the years there has been many articles and controversy on this subject.

As you can read below, there are many different opinions. I have personally worked with women for 30 some years and what I have found is bottom line...women want to feel confident and feel good about themselves.

5 Things I've Found True about Makeup:

1. Our Image is "an image" in itself.

We are visual human beings and we evaluate our environment on what we see and hear. We gravitate toward situations that appear welcoming.

2. Make-up is a subject that comes up for most women with confidence or hesitancy.  

I meet women 40+ years old all the time that DON'T know how to wear makeup, no one took the time to correctly show them how to apply it. So they have no confidence and most of the time choose not to wear it because it's easier not to.

3. Do most women want to wear make up and feel prettier - I would say Yes!  

Why? Because there is something about looking in the mirror and saying "Wow, I look good." That thought turns into an emotion which then turns into a belief which turns into how they approach their day.

4. Perception.

There is something visually appealing when we see a woman put-together - hair, clothes, makeup and shoes. Yes, I am an Image Consultant and Yes this is what I help women accomplish. But at the end of the day it is all about the beliefs we have about our self. It's how we see our-self.  When we have positive emotions about how we look and feel, we look at every other area of our life in a new light.

5. If wearing a little more makeup can give a woman more confidence to take on the world, earn more income, and make a bigger difference in the world - I SAY WEAR YOUR LIPSTICK AND BE PROUD!

In a study, women were photographed wearing varying amounts of makeup, from left: barefaced, natural, professional and glamorous. Viewers considered the women wearing more makeup to be more competent.

WANT more respect, trust and affection from your co-workers?

Wearing makeup — but not gobs of Gaga-conspicuous makeup — apparently can help. It increases people’s perceptions of a woman’s likeability, her competence and (provided she does not overdo it) her trustworthiness, according to a new study, which also confirmed what is obvious: that cosmetics boost a woman’s attractiveness.

It has long been known that symmetrical faces are considered more comely, and that people assume that handsome folks are intelligent and good. There is also some evidence that women feel more confident when wearing makeup, a kind of placebo effect, said Nancy Etcoff, the study’s lead author and an assistant clinical professor of psychology at Harvard University (yes, scholars there study eyeshadow as well as stem cells). But no research, till now, has given makeup credit for people inferring that a woman was capable, reliable and amiable.

The study was paid for by Procter & Gamble, which sells CoverGirl and Dolce & Gabbana makeup, but researchers like Professor Etcoff and others from Boston University and the Dana-Farber Cancer Institute were responsible for its design and execution.

The study’s 25 female subjects, aged 20 to 50 and white, African-American and Hispanic, were photographed barefaced and in three looks that researchers called natural, professional and glamorous. They were not allowed to look in a mirror, lest their feelings about the way they looked affect observers’ impressions.

One hundred forty-nine adults (including 61 men) judged the pictures for 250 milliseconds each, enough time to make a snap judgment. Then 119 different adults (including 30 men) were given unlimited time to look at the same faces.

The participants judged women made up in varying intensities of luminance contrast (fancy words for how much eyes and lips stand out compared with skin) as more competent than barefaced women, whether they had a quick glance or a longer inspection.

“I’m a little surprised that the relationship held for even the glamour look,” said Richard Russell, an assistant professor of psychology at Gettysburg College in Gettysburg, Pa. “If I call to mind a heavily competent woman like, say, Hillary Clinton, I don’t think of a lot of makeup. Then again, she’s often onstage so for all I know she is wearing a lot.”

However, the glamour look wasn’t all roses.

“If you wear a glam look, you should know you look very attractive” at quick glance, said Professor Etcoff, the author of “Survival of the Prettiest” (Doubleday, 1999), which argued that the pursuit of beauty is a biological as well as a cultural imperative. But over time, “there may be a lowering of trust, so if you are in a situation where you need to be a trusted source, perhaps you should choose a different look.”

Just as boardroom attire differs from what you would wear to a nightclub, so can makeup be chosen strategically depending on the agenda.

“There are times when you want to give a powerful ‘I’m in charge here’ kind of impression, and women shouldn’t be afraid to do that,” by, say, using a deeper lip color that could look shiny, increasing luminosity, said Sarah Vickery, another author of the study and a Procter & Gamble scientist. “Other times you want to give off a more balanced, more collaborative appeal.”

In that case, she suggested, opt for lip tones that are light to moderate in color saturation, providing contrast to facial skin, but not being too glossy.

But some women did not view the study’s findings as progress.

“I don’t wear makeup, nor do I wish to spend 20 minutes applying it,” said Deborah Rhode, a law professor at Stanford University who wrote “The Beauty Bias” (Oxford University Press, 2010), which details how appearance unjustly affects some workers. “The quality of my teaching shouldn’t depend on the color of my lipstick or whether I’ve got mascara on.”

She is no “beauty basher,” she said. “I’m against our preoccupation, and how judgments about attractiveness spill over into judgments about competence and job performance. We like individuals in the job market to be judged on the basis of competence, not cosmetics.”

But Professor Etcoff argued that there has been a cultural shift in ideas about self-adornment, including makeup. “Twenty or 30 years ago, if you got dressed up, it was simply to please men, or it was something you were doing because society demands it,” she said. “Women and feminists today see this is their own choice, and it may be an effective tool.”

Dr. Vickery, whose Ph.D. is in chemistry, added that cosmetics “can significantly change how people see you, how smart people think you are on first impression, or how warm and approachable, and that look is completely within a woman’s control, when there are so many things you cannot control.”

Bobbi Brown, the founder of her namesake cosmetics line, suggested that focusing on others’ perceptions misses the point of what makes makeup powerful.

“We are able to transform ourselves, not only how we are perceived, but how we feel,” she said.

Ms. Brown also said that the wrong color on a subject may have caused some testers to conclude that women with high-contrasting makeup were more “untrustworthy.” “People will have a bad reaction if it’s not the right color, not the right texture, or if the makeup is not enhancing your natural beauty,” she said.

Daniel Hamermesh, an economics professor at the University of Texas at Austin, said the conclusion that makeup makes women look more likable — or more socially cooperative — made sense to him because “we conflate looks and a willingness to take care of yourself with a willingness to take care of people.”

Professor Hamermesh, the author of “Beauty Pays” (Princeton University Press, 2011), which lays out the leg-up the beautiful get, said he wished that good-looking people were not treated differently, but said he was a realist.

“Like any other thing that society rewards, people will take advantage of it,” he said of makeup’s benefits. “I’m an economist, so I say, why not? But I wish society didn’t reward this. I think we’d be a fairer world if beauty were not rewarded, but it is.

Does This Look Good on Me?

Probably one of the number one questions I receive from clients about the clothing pieces they have in their closet is, “does this look good on me”?  

It’s kind of an interesting thought when you think about it. You bought the item at the time thinking it looked great, right? Or were you on an emotional high to buy something NEW? Or maybe one of the sales people told you it looked good and you believed them. And now you’re doubting yourself.  From experience, there have been times when I bought something I thought I loved, took it home and thought what was I thinking.  I usually take a little more time to discern if it is a good fit and does it really look good on me before I make my final decision to keep it. If for any reason I decide to keep the item but know I feel a little uncomfortable with the tightness around my thighs (for example)…then I probably will find myself not reaching for it. And there it sits until someone comes along and I ask, “do you think this looks good on me”?

My personal mission when working with clients is that they feel not just good but amazing in whatever they wear for the day or occasion.

I believe life is about becoming more of who we are while at the same time seeing all the good that is already there. I believe your clothing and how you show up is just one way to Reveal Your Radiance. Too many people hide behind they’re clothing or simply think clothing really doesn’t matter. Being successful is expressed in how we accept who we are and present ourselves.  I believe we need to feel our most confident self when we walk out the door every morning.

As you move toward Revealing Your Radiance in 2016…something that I can’t do for you but is a necessity, “accept your body” as it is. What I mean by that is whether you are the perfect weight or need to lose a few pounds your ample chest will still be there, you’re still five foot tall, or you still have a booty.  Likely none of those features are going to change, they are part of who you are at any weight. So I suggest you love who you are now, work with your assets and highlight what gives you the most confidence.

To start off 2016 here are a few simple guidelines to help you accept your body as it is and help discern does this look good on me?

1. Accept Your Body! 

2. Verbalize what body parts you feel most confident about!

3. REVEAL YOUR RADIANCE and Be Confident!


Ample Chest: hello waist!

  • When was the last time you were fitted for the correct bra size? Unbelievable on how your girls can look in the correct bra size underneath a beautiful blouse. Most women are wearing their bra too low and it cuts into their defined waist.

  • Check out this this simple video to determine your correct bra size. http://www.lemystere.com/fitguide/measureme

  • Are you an hour-glass figure and didn’t know it? If your waist measures around 9”-13” smaller than your hips or bust, that’s considered an hour-glass shape.

  • Try cinching it in, clothing that show off your waist.

  • V-necks, wrap dresses, ¾ sleeve length, and fitted jackets are your best friends.

Tiny Bosom: you can wear anything without feeling risqué!

  • The opposite of the ample chest but you can feel you have similar issues. Maybe it’s time to get a new bra with some added shape.

  • Show off your neck and shoulders. Try a deep V neckline.

  • Add texture in your fabric or heavy –knit styles to your tops to add fullness which also can balance out your bottom half.

Cankles: no one notices, unless you point it out!

  • Ditch the habit of hiding under wide leg pants.

  • Try heels or flats with a low cut vamp – elongates your foot.

  • Match your hosiery and shoe color.

  • Stacked heel vs stilettos.

  • Keep your hems above the knee cap to show off the most defined part of the leg…just below your knee.

Big Booty: own your ample derriere`!

  • Don’t mask it. Trying to hide your butt with oversize pieces can make you look wider everywhere else.

  • Dresses with cinched waists.

  • Body-con style dresses that hold you in place and stretch with your curves.

Pancake Butt: you can rock the boosting powers of stretch fabrics!

  • Have you tried a Jumpsuits? They are perfect for you. Cinched waist, loose fitting top with bottom skimming qualities.

  • Put the focus on waist definition. This will take the focus off your bum. Look for darts around the stomach area in dresses or shirts.

  • Heavy texture or thick fabrics for butt boosting.

Little Me: heels are your best friend!

  • You can go with a shorter hem length – keep it at or above the knee or if you’ve got spunk go for the mini.

  • Patterns – you can pull them off but keep them on the smaller scale.

  • Jeans – try a wider leg or boot cut style while wearing a higher shoe without fulling exposing your footwear.

  • Statement necklaces move the eye up but keep them in proportion to your size (including your face shape).

Curvy Girl: you don’t have to be skinny to feel sophisticated, put-together and yes, sexy.

  • Look for pieces that can be adjusted to your own figure like wrap dresses and belted coats vs. shapeless pieces.

  • Make color and patterns work for you. Attract attention to your most confident areas. While dark hues will downplay problem areas.


What I have discovered when working with ladies of various shapes and sizes is that whether you wear a size 2 or 22 we all have issues that we are confronted with.

1. Accept your body!

2. Verbalize what body parts you feel most confident about!

3. REVEAL YOUR RADIANCE and Be Confident!


Annette Bond is a Personal Image Consultant who works with professional men and women over 50 who feel ordinary, old or overweight. She helps them to reveal their radiance so they can become more of who they are and walk into the world with more confidence and success.


Programs offered:

  1. Reveal Your Radiance Signature Program
    A 6-step all-inclusive program that includes style assessment, color consultation, closet makeover, personal shopping, makeup and hair consultation.

Are you in a place that you know a transformation is essential to stay current and relevant in how you are presenting yourself to the world both professionally and personally? Are you a professional who is great at what you do, but not in the style department?  Do you need to start from the ground up – from knowing what silhouettes, styles and colors look good on you to organizing your closet more effectively? Desiring the end result to be a successful wardrobe that is timeless yet up to date, combined with pizzazz but still simple to mix and match

2. Re-imagined Wardrobe
A 3-step program that turns your boring closet into a completely Re-imagined Wardrobe with 25 NEW Outfits…Guaranteed!

Are you frustrated each morning when you have to get dressed because your clothes are tired and lack pizzazz?  Do you feel overwhelmed when trying to decide what to keep and what to get rid of in your closet? Do you have some great pieces but need help with mixing and matching the clothes you already have in your closet?

Contact me at annette@annettebond.com for more information on how I can help you REVEAL YOUR RADIANCE!

Granny Panties, Ugly Shoes and Mom Jeans…

For all of you over 50 women, does this sound like a laughable statement but know maybe you’re one of them. Of course you would never admit it or would you?  The subject of comfortable shoes comes up quite frequently with my clients. How do you find cute comfortable shoes? They usually tell me they’ve succumb to the “ugly shoes” because comfort is more important.

My husband told me recently that granny panties, ugly shoes and mom jeans all go under the frame work of how you see yourself or how you think the world sees you. It got me thinking.  As baby boomers continue to age you have to decide how do you want to show up in the world? Old and ordinary or fierce and fabulous?

I have personally witnessed that there are the women who want to continue their youthfulness and vitality in their 50’s and 60’s in whatever they do. Then there is the camp who has given up and decided they are “old” and their mindset and actions follow.

I hope you have figured it out by now, I am talking about mindset not comfortable shoes, granny panties or mom jeans. Because I think when we decide to go down the road of, “I am old now” our taste in style goes down the drain also.

Instead, how do you want to feel? How do you want to be perceived? There is an energy that follows depending on the answer you chose.

You may need to decide you’re going to step up to the plate and let go of the perceived, I am ordinary, old and over-weight and it doesn’t matter anymore.

I ask myself,

“Why are certain women over 50 afraid to what I refer to as, reveal their radiance”? Have they not come to the point of accepting their bodies? Are they still in the 20 year old mindset of no-style confidence? Did their mothers scar them for life? Did a man in their life not tell them they were sexy? Or did they just give up and say, “Oh I’m fifty now so it doesn’t matter”?

Ladies, ladies you are so smart, full of wisdom, courageous, sexy, amazing and you don’t even know it. One of the subjects I teach on is what is that “made up perceived image” that you have been telling yourself for years?  It’s time to identify it, acknowledge it and replace it with a NEW perceived image of yourself.  It’s time to wear the cute comfortable shoes, vanishing lace panties and hot jeans for women over 50.

Own Your Style Confidence Style Guide (Download Here)

My financial planner tells me I am going to be around until I’m 93 years old so that means I still have 40 years to live, that means these are the good ole days, the days when I have my health, my energy, my 50 year old body that gets me around quite well and lots of choices in life.

It’s time to let go of the 50 years of made-up perceived body image and move into your “ideal image” and live life with vitality. Stop waiting for when the “time is right” or “someday”. That someday is TODAY! Today is the present, a gift for you.

I’m one of you, I’m 55 and loving life to its fullest. Wearing cute comfortable shoes, hot jeans that hug my hips that I forever hated back in my 20’s.  And wearing vanishing no-line panties that flatter every pant I wear.  Life is good.

Are you frustrated each morning when you have to get dressed because your clothes are tired and lack pizzazz?  Do you feel overwhelmed when trying to decide what to keep and what to get rid of in your closet? Do you have some great pieces but need help with mixing and matching the clothes you already have in your closet?

Own Your Style with Confidence - Style Guide - Download Here

If you’re ready to get your style figured out - let’s have a casual conversation so I can get to know you and learn more about what’s keeping you stuck.

Schedule a time https://www.annettebond.com/contact

How To Be Color Savvy with Buttercup Yellow

Color Savvy with BUTTERCUP

An unmellow yellow brightened the runways for spring...it will have the same mood-lifting effect on your wardrobe. HAPPY!

WHY I LOVE IT 

The hue is both fun, happy, and bold. It's a strong color and adds a freshness and artistic taste to your style.

HOW TO WEAR IT 

Soft fabrics make it more wearable. If it's too much to wear head-to-toe add a buttercup bag or accessory to make it look "spontaneous". For those who are thinking I don't do yellow...try it in a clear, ice yellow. Adding a  "buttercup" skirt or short, ground it with a neutral blouse or jacket to give you that uplifting feel but also wearable to the office.

 

 

PAIR IT WITH 

White and linen for a more understated feel. Classic navy lends a more refined look. But if you're a color extrovert and want a little more vibrancy punch it up with Kelly green.  Make-up - instead of going with a warm tint in lipstick, try adding an unexpected "perfect pink" matte lipstick or gloss.