Color Can Be Magical!

COLOR can be magical!

How many times have you been ambiguous about what to wear and you look in your closet and find that delicious sunny coral t-shirt that makes you smile and feel good all over? Or you’re out shopping and a rack of beautiful reds and burgundies catch your eye.  For an instant you think, “Wow, I love that”, while thinking oh I could never wear that and you’ve quickly move to the rack of all black.

I want you to STOP right there and start rethinking the way you look at COLOR.  Why did you say, “I can’t wear that”?  Who told you that?  There are comments made in our past by people who most likely we really never took advice from but in one moment a spontaneous statement was made and we have kept it in our mind for years….and have never let go of it.

It’s funny how we do that, isn’t it. Or maybe you had a color analysis done in 1982 and the lady told you these are your “six colors” and red and burgundy are not one of them. You took her at face value and never again tried red or burgundy.

Today, I want you to open your mind to COLOR.  COLOR can be magical.

  • Color can make you feel good

  • Color can be emotional

  • Color can bring out your personality

  • Color can attract others to you

  • Color can be creative

  • Color is inspirational

  • Color can show our feminine side

  • Color can show our masculine side

  • Color can evoke and inspiration

  • Color can stand out in a crowd

  • Color can add a spark to your life

  • Color can bring confidence

If you are one of those people who wear’s alotttttt of black, I invite you to start experimenting. Or maybe you’re just afraid of the reaction you will get by wearing more color. Whatever the reason is you need to start by taking a step into the world of color. I want you to take your favorite black pant with you shopping.  Let’s start with 2 colors.  We’re going to begin by choosing colors that compliment your eyes.  If your eyes are a blend of blue/green then those are the two colors to begin with. If your eyes are brown then I want you to try blue and purple as they are complimentary colors of brown.  If your eyes have a goldy green then you will choose a gold tone yellow and green.  If your eyes are gray, choose a blue and maybe pink.  This is your first assignment in putting to the test the world of COLOR.

As you are choosing your color pieces, you have variety of options.  You could choose a beautifulblouse that may be a solid or print. A beautiful  sweater. Or it could even be larger style statement necklace or scarf. 

Remember this is all about experimenting; you don’t have to buy it. But just try it; you might like it as Dr. Seuss did with green eggs and ham.

I am going to go back to the red and burgundy example at the start of my story, as they are Pantone’s Fall 2014, Aurora Red and Sangria.  Aurora Red and Sangria are what I would call crossover colors and that means everyone looks good in them.  They are colors we see in nature.  Would you ever say your beautiful red geraniums look terrible with the brown dirt – NO.  Would you ever say the burgundy looks very out of place in the evening sunset, heavens no.  There are a set of colors that are eyes are accustomed to seeing in nature and against many backgrounds, these are called crossover colors.

So go out there today and have fun with color. Embrace color. Give it meaning. Pair it with other color combinations and be courageous. Let your personality shine. Show a little of your feminine side. And most of all don’t be afraid to stand out in a crowd because of COLOR.

5 Fall Trends With Timeless Staying Power

1. Plaid

 A classic print that has been around for years but has resurfaced this fall 2014. New color combinations with the classic print make it new and fresh.  Add your plaid shirt to a pair of jeans, topped with a beautiful patterned cape and you’ll be rocking it girl.

2. Gray

Another classic and oh so classy.  The color gray is spilling over into shoes, boots, handbags, prints, sweaters and dresses. It’s a color we see in nature. It’s a relaxing soothing color that looks good on most skin tones. We will continue to see a softer tone of gray this spring.

3. The Overcoat

The fabric, the design, texture and new colors are what make the wool overcoat a standout this season.  It’s not just your basic black and camel coat – you have choices.

4. Patterned Knits

Women are discovering they love pattern and texture. It takes them away from their basic solids. It’s a piece that can be worn on its own and makes a statement in a simple kind of way. Add a simple patterned sweater to a skirt, tights and your bootie shoes and you will be styling and current for the upcoming season.

5. Wild Things

Refined animal prints that have been tamed. They’re small and quiet.  We love our classic brown/gold animal print that pops up every season but the refined prints are for the girls who have been thinking of giving it a try but were still a little hesitant. Want to dabble in the trend, try a snakeskin cross-body bag or sleek open-toe heels or maybe a fun animal print skirt with a solid top to ground the look.

Rent the Runway: Rent the Dress, Own the Look

Story by Michelle Esteban of KOMONEWS.COM

On the red carpet or in the office, best-dressed can bust your budget. But now, the latest online shopping trend allows users to rent a dress, and own the look.

"I think it's actually kind of awesome," said Annette Bond, owner of Definitive Style by Annette Bond.

She is a personal image consultant with 30 years of fashion industry experience.

"Oh my gosh, I love it, what do you think?" asked Bond, of her client Angela Hildre, who beamed in a beautiful coral-colored one-shoulder dress.  "I love the color of it too," said Hildre from Bond's home office.

Bond calls online shopping a new option for clients like Hildre. Renting provides access over ownership.

"I try not to wear the same thing, so I want something new," said Hildre.

She can either pay retail for a department store gown, or try to rent the look for less.

"The fact that you could get a designer look, a one-of-a-kind look, and you don't have to invest the money," said Hildre.

It's RentTheRunway.com, an online service that has 50,000 designer dress rentals that can be delivered to your doorstep.

For example, I rented a gold-sequined Badgley Mischka full-length gown, which retails for $620, for $70. That included shipping, taxes, insurance, a first-time ordering discount, and 5 bucks to rent earrings. My total price tag was $98.50.

And if the dress doesn't fit, the service provides a backup size for free. My order arrived on time, the first dress fit like a glove and looked as if it came right off the rack; not tired, used or overly dry cleaned. But their gowns are like Cinderella's chariot, they have to be returned in either 4 or 8 days - or else there's a late charge.

The clothing rental trend goes beyond the red carpet. LeTote.com, for example, rents daily wear.

For a monthly fee, users get door-to-door service, and can buy anytime at a discount.

"There is something to be said for trying the dress on, and seeing how they feel and look in the dress in their body, their figure," said Shirdel. "I think a stylist is priceless."

You do have to know what works on your body type, before you rent.

"That's something you really need to watch," warned Annette Bond.

For first time renters: Keep these 4 tips in mind:

1. Have a budget and beware of the snowball effect.

2. Online sites makes it easy to over indulge with accessories, including shape wear and makeup.

3. Pay attention to fees, damaged clothing, or late returns. They can quickly add up.

4. Since models looks good in every outfit, always check out customer’s reviews and photos to get a real look at the rental on real women.

That red carpet look is not just for the celebrities anymore.

Are You a Red Purse Girl?

Have you been looking for that perfect RED handbag?

The question becomes what style?

What is the function of it? How do you want it to work for you?

Are you too old for Red? No, No, No

The Crossover Bag: 

  1. Perfect to use as an accent color to any outfit.
  2. Great bag when need to just carry your wallet, phone and lipstick.
  3. Make sure you try it on for comfort.
  4. Some are more bulky than others and can add a little extra to the hip area.

The Hobo Bag: 

  1. The rounded corners give it a more casual feel.
  2. Perfect for the dressy casual look.
  3. Love jeans but want to dress them up a notch - a great choice.

The Tote Bag:

  1. Perfect for toting your computer around.
  2. Classy look for carrying to a meeting.
  3. If you plan to carry it on your shoulder, make sure it is comfortable.

The Wristlet: 

  1. Hate purses? An option you may have not considered.
  2. The wristlet/wallet is available in a variety of sizes. What do you want it to hold? Phone, credit card, business cards?
  3. Feel like the bag-lady at times? The Wristletis perfect for putting inside the Tote Bag.

The RED Handbag is a year around color. It can give you the pop of color you're looking for on a gloomy day. Add to your neutrals such as black and gray.

If you love RED and are not incorporating it into your wardrobe...a handbag can be a first step.

RED will get noticed. Not a bag thing in my opinion.


Annette Bond is a Personal Image Consultant who works with professional men and women over 50 who feel ordinary, old or overweight. She helps them to reveal their radiance so they can become more of who they are and walk into the world with more confidence and success.

Are you the kind of person who wants to position themselves for success but are lacking confidence in the style department?

And, without a doubt, know you look impeccably "put together" and standout as a leader with confidence in your field?

If you're ready to have that kind of confidence I just described above, let's schedule a time to chat.  Life is too short to keep feeling frustrated every time you have to decide what looks good on you.

Annette@annettebond.com

3 Ways to Gain More Color Confidence

Color is an interesting subject because it can conjure up so many different meanings and feelings for individuals.

The colors you chose to wear may reflect your personality as an introvert, an extrovert...or maybe you’re trying not to be seen?

Did you grow up with a mother who loved experimenting with color whether it was with clothing or paint?

Or maybe you wore a uniform to school and you now shut down those colors?

We all have a story to tell about color.

I had a personal experience with purple. I realized nothing in my closet was purple nor was I attracted to it. As I thought more about the “why” behind the reason for not being attracted to purple, I realized that was my sister’s color growing up, my color was pink. If there is a color you’re struggling with, I encourage you to dig deeper into why you have that thought and then “attempt” to let go. Move forward with an open mind that allows you to play more and not be so bridled with color apprehension.

I find many people hesitate experimenting with color outside their box for fear of, “what if it doesn’t look good.” They decide on two or three colors that they like and don’t venture far into the creativity realm.

Through my one-on-one Color Image Consultation I am able to give you increased confidence on where to start and objective insight into why a color makes you shine.

Last week I spoke to a group of ladies about creating More Color Confidence

Here are 3 distinct avenues to explore & attain greater color inspiration:

1. Look at your own natural coloring, your hair, eyes and skin tone.

Start by having a friend describe your eye color. I guarantee that many of you will be surprised how complex your eye color can be. Take those specific colors and start experimenting with clothing colors that compliment your eye color.

For example:

Amber golden brown eyes: try a honey gold or tangerine coral color.
Hazel eyes: try a deep teal blue or emerald green.
Light green/blue eyes: try a slate blue, softened green tone or warm pink.

2. Look for inspiration in different mediums, like paintings, beautiful scarves or an outfit in a magazine.

If the color combination catches your eye, try it, experiment, you have nothing to lose.

I recently received a beautiful scarf  as a thank you gift for speaking at the Illuminating Women’s group – I fell in love with the color combination. I began playing in my closet and found I can wear it with my blue sheath dress, my favorite new emerald jacket and use as a pop of color with my white jeans. I’m excited – thank you Cecilia for handpicking this beauty in Italy. What a treat!

3 Use color as a tool to convey the message about how you want to show up in the world.

More professional, add navy, blue tones or gray. More creative, add purples and unexpected combinations such as icy blue to eggplant. Gray and chartreuse. More elegant, add burgundy or teal.

We are smack in the middle of all the vibrancy of spring and summer clothing. Indulge in a new color or new color combination. By adding one new color to your wardrobe this spring, you will have an instant update. That color could be in the form of a necklace, handbag, blouse, or jacket. I stand strong on my philosophy– make sure you can wear that new piece with at least 2-3 pieces in your current wardrobe. You will love the versatility and optimization.

My inspiration for the season is emerald, I’m loving it and can’t wait to acquire more pieces. I’m combining it with soft pink, white, black, navy, denim, icy blue and possibly some fuchsia. Wow, who knew? I also recently came home with a great big tote from target – emerald green, of course.

What is your NEW COLOR for Spring 2016? I’d love to hear how you’re playing with color and new color combinations!


Annette Bond is a Personal Image Consultant who works with the professional over 50 who feel ordinary, old or overweight. She helps them to reveal their radiance so they can become more of who they are and walk into the world with more confidence and success.

Do you need to feel more put-together, current and polished? Does your professional dress need to be taken up a notch?

Email Annette @ annette@annettebond.com to learn about her Reveal Your Radiance Signature Program.

Or visit http://annettebond.com/image-services/

How To Own Your Confident Power Pose

Amy Cuddy, TED speaker, shares how to use our physiology to gain more self-confidence when we're not feeling it.

She asks the question, "Can you fake it till you make it"?  

She says, yes. As your body is feeling confident and powerful, your mind will follow. She suggests you think of the "wonder woman pose" as a start.

Enjoy the video above to learn more.

3 Tips to Help You Own Your Confident Power Pose:

1. Open Up and Occupy Space

This gives you a secret inner confidence you may be lacking
 

2. Watch the Body Language of Those You Admire

Powerful people tend to be more assertive, confident, and more optimistic. They also think abstract and take more risks. 
 

3. Be Aware of Your Body

Your physiology can change your mind and how you're feeling at the moment.

Understanding what body language does to yourself and not necessarily how it effects others is a very powerful tool to use. I learned from Tony Robbins years ago that what we are feeling or thinking starts with our physiology.  That is, what are we doing with our bodies.

How To Refine & Elevate Your Personal Image Through COLOR

Did you know that color can bring out the color of your hair? This is known as one of your Signature Colors.

Example: Anything yellow or gold is going to highlight (bring forward) the blond tones. Or bring out the blond highlights in brown hair.  This is when others compliment you and say, "wow you look pretty today".  There is a harmony happening with your natural coloring. Yellow is associated with sunshine. Yellow people are highly original, innovative, imaginative, creative and artistic. You are optimistic and encourage others to do their best.

Men of Substance: 4 Tips for the Perfect Fitting Suit Jacket

Did you know that the jacket is the most important piece of a suit?

Did you know that a jacket gives you authority?

Did you know the 2-button jacket is the most classic style?

4 Tips for the Perfect Fit

1. FIT, FIT, FIT

is a MUST in a mens jacket. Guys notoriously don't care about "fit" because they want to be comfortable. They think tight clothes are feminine or in some cases have never considered the question of fit.

2. Check Your Shoulder Seam

Does your jacket shoulder seam end on your shoulder bone or does it hang over? If it hangs over, the jacket is ill fitting or you need alterations

3. Sport Coat vs. Suit Jacket

A sport coat has a looser fit than a suit jacket

4. Sleeve length of jacket

Is it shorter than your shirt? If not, it's too long.

Email me to schedule your FREE consultation  - annette@annettebond.com

4 Secrets to Help Increase Your Likeability

Your Personal Image + Likeability = The Whole Story

We know you are looking and feeling amazing on the outside but we also know there is more to a person than simply their clothing.  I am fascinated by the Likeability Factor.  I believe the L-Factor can give you that extra edge when making a great first impression and building authentic relationships.

Being a big fan of the TV show, The Voice, I have observed over and over how individuals are voted on by the American public. They may have the best voice ever but if the viewers do not find them likeable…it shows in the voting. On the other hand, we’ve all met those people that we really like, and you may have never given it a second thought to why you like them so much, that is the Likeability Factor at work.

This is an area that I suggest you become more aware of when you are presenting yourself whether for business or pleasure.  I believe it make a big difference in how you are perceived.

4 Elements that Create Your Likeability Factor:

1. Friendliness

Expressing a general positive feeling. If someone perceives that you like them, they will most likely like you back. Without reciprocation, likeability is not likely to happen.

Friendliness is about developing a friendly mind-set. Get rid of unfriendly.

How to show friendly signs:

  • Let them see you SMILE before you say a word
  • When you greet others, lead with your smile
  • Make eye contact
  • Use your eye brows
  • Use your eyes to show emotion
  • Hold your head up when you talk
  • Maintain good posture
  • Use friendly words such as wonderful, excellent, awesome, beautiful, perfect, appreciate, inspiring, etc.
  • Use friendly phrases such as nice to see you, glad you are here, welcome, how can I help, absolutely, and sure.

BE YOURSELF ALWAYS. THIS IS ABOUT BEING A BETTER YOU.

2. Relevance

Relevance is the extent to which the other person connects to your life’s interests, wants and needs. The variable is the strength of the connection. When people connect with one of your high-level interests or needs their relevance to you soars.

3 LEVELS OF RELEVANCE: BASIC CONTACT, MUTUAL INTERESTS, VALUE

How to show relevance:

  • Basic contact: Part of the same group. Live by each other
  • When others are in frequent contact with you, they have a bias to like you
  • Improve the quality of your contacts by staying connected
  • Mutual interests: discover what your contacts interests are. You’re developing commonality. Connect with others wants and needs. The variable is the strength of the connection.
  • Value: if you possess a skill that will help someone complete a task, you are more relevant to that person.
  • Likeability and interests are related, because when two people have a passion in common, they are connected at the sweet spot, which is at the heart of being relevant.

3. Empathy

Can you see things from their point of view? Can you feel what they feel? Can you walk in that persons shoes?

Empathy delivers the psychological benefits, personal worth, how you feel, validated, appreciated, and special.

How to show empathy:

  • If you’re not aware of others’ feelings, you can be perceived as insensitive
  • Don’t interrupt
  • Wear your listening cap. Commit to being a better listener to understand how others feel
  • Ask, don’t tell. Ask for details
  • Remember conversations

4. Realness

We ask the question is this person real? Genuine, trustworthy, authentic. When we search for realness in another person, we recognize it by its absence.

How to show realness:

  • Be true to yourself. You must know the real you.
  • Let your values be your compass as you navigate life.
  • Practice humility. Watch out for exaggeration.
  • Share your realness. Learn to say, “I don’t know.”
  • Be present. Whenever you are with others, be with them 100%.
     

How to Find Your Likeable Self:

1. Try to recall the last time someone paid you a compliment

2. What compliments did you most enjoy receiving?

3. Think about your biggest fan, this person talks about you in glowing terms.

4. What converted her from an acquaintance to a supporter?

5. What would be 2 likeable features she would say?

6. Role model – someone you admire & want to emulate – top 2 features

7. Identify the features that contribute to a high L-factor in yourself and others.

What Others Say About YOU… Be More of That!

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*Information obtained from the book,  The Likeability Factor by Tim Sanders.

How to Increase Your Bottom Line, Lipstick in Hand

Over the years there has been many articles and controversy on this subject.

As you can read below, there are many different opinions. I have personally worked with women for 30 some years and what I have found is bottom line...women want to feel confident and feel good about themselves.

5 Things I've Found True about Makeup:

1. Our Image is "an image" in itself.

We are visual human beings and we evaluate our environment on what we see and hear. We gravitate toward situations that appear welcoming.

2. Make-up is a subject that comes up for most women with confidence or hesitancy.  

I meet women 40+ years old all the time that DON'T know how to wear makeup, no one took the time to correctly show them how to apply it. So they have no confidence and most of the time choose not to wear it because it's easier not to.

3. Do most women want to wear make up and feel prettier - I would say Yes!  

Why? Because there is something about looking in the mirror and saying "Wow, I look good." That thought turns into an emotion which then turns into a belief which turns into how they approach their day.

4. Perception.

There is something visually appealing when we see a woman put-together - hair, clothes, makeup and shoes. Yes, I am an Image Consultant and Yes this is what I help women accomplish. But at the end of the day it is all about the beliefs we have about our self. It's how we see our-self.  When we have positive emotions about how we look and feel, we look at every other area of our life in a new light.

5. If wearing a little more makeup can give a woman more confidence to take on the world, earn more income, and make a bigger difference in the world - I SAY WEAR YOUR LIPSTICK AND BE PROUD!

In a study, women were photographed wearing varying amounts of makeup, from left: barefaced, natural, professional and glamorous. Viewers considered the women wearing more makeup to be more competent.

WANT more respect, trust and affection from your co-workers?

Wearing makeup — but not gobs of Gaga-conspicuous makeup — apparently can help. It increases people’s perceptions of a woman’s likeability, her competence and (provided she does not overdo it) her trustworthiness, according to a new study, which also confirmed what is obvious: that cosmetics boost a woman’s attractiveness.

It has long been known that symmetrical faces are considered more comely, and that people assume that handsome folks are intelligent and good. There is also some evidence that women feel more confident when wearing makeup, a kind of placebo effect, said Nancy Etcoff, the study’s lead author and an assistant clinical professor of psychology at Harvard University (yes, scholars there study eyeshadow as well as stem cells). But no research, till now, has given makeup credit for people inferring that a woman was capable, reliable and amiable.

The study was paid for by Procter & Gamble, which sells CoverGirl and Dolce & Gabbana makeup, but researchers like Professor Etcoff and others from Boston University and the Dana-Farber Cancer Institute were responsible for its design and execution.

The study’s 25 female subjects, aged 20 to 50 and white, African-American and Hispanic, were photographed barefaced and in three looks that researchers called natural, professional and glamorous. They were not allowed to look in a mirror, lest their feelings about the way they looked affect observers’ impressions.

One hundred forty-nine adults (including 61 men) judged the pictures for 250 milliseconds each, enough time to make a snap judgment. Then 119 different adults (including 30 men) were given unlimited time to look at the same faces.

The participants judged women made up in varying intensities of luminance contrast (fancy words for how much eyes and lips stand out compared with skin) as more competent than barefaced women, whether they had a quick glance or a longer inspection.

“I’m a little surprised that the relationship held for even the glamour look,” said Richard Russell, an assistant professor of psychology at Gettysburg College in Gettysburg, Pa. “If I call to mind a heavily competent woman like, say, Hillary Clinton, I don’t think of a lot of makeup. Then again, she’s often onstage so for all I know she is wearing a lot.”

However, the glamour look wasn’t all roses.

“If you wear a glam look, you should know you look very attractive” at quick glance, said Professor Etcoff, the author of “Survival of the Prettiest” (Doubleday, 1999), which argued that the pursuit of beauty is a biological as well as a cultural imperative. But over time, “there may be a lowering of trust, so if you are in a situation where you need to be a trusted source, perhaps you should choose a different look.”

Just as boardroom attire differs from what you would wear to a nightclub, so can makeup be chosen strategically depending on the agenda.

“There are times when you want to give a powerful ‘I’m in charge here’ kind of impression, and women shouldn’t be afraid to do that,” by, say, using a deeper lip color that could look shiny, increasing luminosity, said Sarah Vickery, another author of the study and a Procter & Gamble scientist. “Other times you want to give off a more balanced, more collaborative appeal.”

In that case, she suggested, opt for lip tones that are light to moderate in color saturation, providing contrast to facial skin, but not being too glossy.

But some women did not view the study’s findings as progress.

“I don’t wear makeup, nor do I wish to spend 20 minutes applying it,” said Deborah Rhode, a law professor at Stanford University who wrote “The Beauty Bias” (Oxford University Press, 2010), which details how appearance unjustly affects some workers. “The quality of my teaching shouldn’t depend on the color of my lipstick or whether I’ve got mascara on.”

She is no “beauty basher,” she said. “I’m against our preoccupation, and how judgments about attractiveness spill over into judgments about competence and job performance. We like individuals in the job market to be judged on the basis of competence, not cosmetics.”

But Professor Etcoff argued that there has been a cultural shift in ideas about self-adornment, including makeup. “Twenty or 30 years ago, if you got dressed up, it was simply to please men, or it was something you were doing because society demands it,” she said. “Women and feminists today see this is their own choice, and it may be an effective tool.”

Dr. Vickery, whose Ph.D. is in chemistry, added that cosmetics “can significantly change how people see you, how smart people think you are on first impression, or how warm and approachable, and that look is completely within a woman’s control, when there are so many things you cannot control.”

Bobbi Brown, the founder of her namesake cosmetics line, suggested that focusing on others’ perceptions misses the point of what makes makeup powerful.

“We are able to transform ourselves, not only how we are perceived, but how we feel,” she said.

Ms. Brown also said that the wrong color on a subject may have caused some testers to conclude that women with high-contrasting makeup were more “untrustworthy.” “People will have a bad reaction if it’s not the right color, not the right texture, or if the makeup is not enhancing your natural beauty,” she said.

Daniel Hamermesh, an economics professor at the University of Texas at Austin, said the conclusion that makeup makes women look more likable — or more socially cooperative — made sense to him because “we conflate looks and a willingness to take care of yourself with a willingness to take care of people.”

Professor Hamermesh, the author of “Beauty Pays” (Princeton University Press, 2011), which lays out the leg-up the beautiful get, said he wished that good-looking people were not treated differently, but said he was a realist.

“Like any other thing that society rewards, people will take advantage of it,” he said of makeup’s benefits. “I’m an economist, so I say, why not? But I wish society didn’t reward this. I think we’d be a fairer world if beauty were not rewarded, but it is.

Does This Look Good on Me?

Probably one of the number one questions I receive from clients about the clothing pieces they have in their closet is, “does this look good on me”?  

It’s kind of an interesting thought when you think about it. You bought the item at the time thinking it looked great, right? Or were you on an emotional high to buy something NEW? Or maybe one of the sales people told you it looked good and you believed them. And now you’re doubting yourself.  From experience, there have been times when I bought something I thought I loved, took it home and thought what was I thinking.  I usually take a little more time to discern if it is a good fit and does it really look good on me before I make my final decision to keep it. If for any reason I decide to keep the item but know I feel a little uncomfortable with the tightness around my thighs (for example)…then I probably will find myself not reaching for it. And there it sits until someone comes along and I ask, “do you think this looks good on me”?

My personal mission when working with clients is that they feel not just good but amazing in whatever they wear for the day or occasion.

I believe life is about becoming more of who we are while at the same time seeing all the good that is already there. I believe your clothing and how you show up is just one way to Reveal Your Radiance. Too many people hide behind they’re clothing or simply think clothing really doesn’t matter. Being successful is expressed in how we accept who we are and present ourselves.  I believe we need to feel our most confident self when we walk out the door every morning.

As you move toward Revealing Your Radiance in 2016…something that I can’t do for you but is a necessity, “accept your body” as it is. What I mean by that is whether you are the perfect weight or need to lose a few pounds your ample chest will still be there, you’re still five foot tall, or you still have a booty.  Likely none of those features are going to change, they are part of who you are at any weight. So I suggest you love who you are now, work with your assets and highlight what gives you the most confidence.

To start off 2016 here are a few simple guidelines to help you accept your body as it is and help discern does this look good on me?

1. Accept Your Body! 

2. Verbalize what body parts you feel most confident about!

3. REVEAL YOUR RADIANCE and Be Confident!


Ample Chest: hello waist!

  • When was the last time you were fitted for the correct bra size? Unbelievable on how your girls can look in the correct bra size underneath a beautiful blouse. Most women are wearing their bra too low and it cuts into their defined waist.

  • Check out this this simple video to determine your correct bra size. http://www.lemystere.com/fitguide/measureme

  • Are you an hour-glass figure and didn’t know it? If your waist measures around 9”-13” smaller than your hips or bust, that’s considered an hour-glass shape.

  • Try cinching it in, clothing that show off your waist.

  • V-necks, wrap dresses, ¾ sleeve length, and fitted jackets are your best friends.

Tiny Bosom: you can wear anything without feeling risqué!

  • The opposite of the ample chest but you can feel you have similar issues. Maybe it’s time to get a new bra with some added shape.

  • Show off your neck and shoulders. Try a deep V neckline.

  • Add texture in your fabric or heavy –knit styles to your tops to add fullness which also can balance out your bottom half.

Cankles: no one notices, unless you point it out!

  • Ditch the habit of hiding under wide leg pants.

  • Try heels or flats with a low cut vamp – elongates your foot.

  • Match your hosiery and shoe color.

  • Stacked heel vs stilettos.

  • Keep your hems above the knee cap to show off the most defined part of the leg…just below your knee.

Big Booty: own your ample derriere`!

  • Don’t mask it. Trying to hide your butt with oversize pieces can make you look wider everywhere else.

  • Dresses with cinched waists.

  • Body-con style dresses that hold you in place and stretch with your curves.

Pancake Butt: you can rock the boosting powers of stretch fabrics!

  • Have you tried a Jumpsuits? They are perfect for you. Cinched waist, loose fitting top with bottom skimming qualities.

  • Put the focus on waist definition. This will take the focus off your bum. Look for darts around the stomach area in dresses or shirts.

  • Heavy texture or thick fabrics for butt boosting.

Little Me: heels are your best friend!

  • You can go with a shorter hem length – keep it at or above the knee or if you’ve got spunk go for the mini.

  • Patterns – you can pull them off but keep them on the smaller scale.

  • Jeans – try a wider leg or boot cut style while wearing a higher shoe without fulling exposing your footwear.

  • Statement necklaces move the eye up but keep them in proportion to your size (including your face shape).

Curvy Girl: you don’t have to be skinny to feel sophisticated, put-together and yes, sexy.

  • Look for pieces that can be adjusted to your own figure like wrap dresses and belted coats vs. shapeless pieces.

  • Make color and patterns work for you. Attract attention to your most confident areas. While dark hues will downplay problem areas.


What I have discovered when working with ladies of various shapes and sizes is that whether you wear a size 2 or 22 we all have issues that we are confronted with.

1. Accept your body!

2. Verbalize what body parts you feel most confident about!

3. REVEAL YOUR RADIANCE and Be Confident!


Annette Bond is a Personal Image Consultant who works with professional men and women over 50 who feel ordinary, old or overweight. She helps them to reveal their radiance so they can become more of who they are and walk into the world with more confidence and success.


Programs offered:

  1. Reveal Your Radiance Signature Program
    A 6-step all-inclusive program that includes style assessment, color consultation, closet makeover, personal shopping, makeup and hair consultation.

Are you in a place that you know a transformation is essential to stay current and relevant in how you are presenting yourself to the world both professionally and personally? Are you a professional who is great at what you do, but not in the style department?  Do you need to start from the ground up – from knowing what silhouettes, styles and colors look good on you to organizing your closet more effectively? Desiring the end result to be a successful wardrobe that is timeless yet up to date, combined with pizzazz but still simple to mix and match

2. Re-imagined Wardrobe
A 3-step program that turns your boring closet into a completely Re-imagined Wardrobe with 25 NEW Outfits…Guaranteed!

Are you frustrated each morning when you have to get dressed because your clothes are tired and lack pizzazz?  Do you feel overwhelmed when trying to decide what to keep and what to get rid of in your closet? Do you have some great pieces but need help with mixing and matching the clothes you already have in your closet?

Contact me at annette@annettebond.com for more information on how I can help you REVEAL YOUR RADIANCE!

Granny Panties, Ugly Shoes and Mom Jeans…

For all of you over 50 women, does this sound like a laughable statement but know maybe you’re one of them. Of course you would never admit it or would you?  The subject of comfortable shoes comes up quite frequently with my clients. How do you find cute comfortable shoes? They usually tell me they’ve succumb to the “ugly shoes” because comfort is more important.

My husband told me recently that granny panties, ugly shoes and mom jeans all go under the frame work of how you see yourself or how you think the world sees you. It got me thinking.  As baby boomers continue to age you have to decide how do you want to show up in the world? Old and ordinary or fierce and fabulous?

I have personally witnessed that there are the women who want to continue their youthfulness and vitality in their 50’s and 60’s in whatever they do. Then there is the camp who has given up and decided they are “old” and their mindset and actions follow.

I hope you have figured it out by now, I am talking about mindset not comfortable shoes, granny panties or mom jeans. Because I think when we decide to go down the road of, “I am old now” our taste in style goes down the drain also.

Instead, how do you want to feel? How do you want to be perceived? There is an energy that follows depending on the answer you chose.

You may need to decide you’re going to step up to the plate and let go of the perceived, I am ordinary, old and over-weight and it doesn’t matter anymore.

I ask myself,

“Why are certain women over 50 afraid to what I refer to as, reveal their radiance”? Have they not come to the point of accepting their bodies? Are they still in the 20 year old mindset of no-style confidence? Did their mothers scar them for life? Did a man in their life not tell them they were sexy? Or did they just give up and say, “Oh I’m fifty now so it doesn’t matter”?

Ladies, ladies you are so smart, full of wisdom, courageous, sexy, amazing and you don’t even know it. One of the subjects I teach on is what is that “made up perceived image” that you have been telling yourself for years?  It’s time to identify it, acknowledge it and replace it with a NEW perceived image of yourself.  It’s time to wear the cute comfortable shoes, vanishing lace panties and hot jeans for women over 50.

Own Your Style Confidence Style Guide (Download Here)

My financial planner tells me I am going to be around until I’m 93 years old so that means I still have 40 years to live, that means these are the good ole days, the days when I have my health, my energy, my 50 year old body that gets me around quite well and lots of choices in life.

It’s time to let go of the 50 years of made-up perceived body image and move into your “ideal image” and live life with vitality. Stop waiting for when the “time is right” or “someday”. That someday is TODAY! Today is the present, a gift for you.

I’m one of you, I’m 55 and loving life to its fullest. Wearing cute comfortable shoes, hot jeans that hug my hips that I forever hated back in my 20’s.  And wearing vanishing no-line panties that flatter every pant I wear.  Life is good.

Are you frustrated each morning when you have to get dressed because your clothes are tired and lack pizzazz?  Do you feel overwhelmed when trying to decide what to keep and what to get rid of in your closet? Do you have some great pieces but need help with mixing and matching the clothes you already have in your closet?

Own Your Style with Confidence - Style Guide - Download Here

If you’re ready to get your style figured out - let’s have a casual conversation so I can get to know you and learn more about what’s keeping you stuck.

Schedule a time https://www.annettebond.com/contact

My Favorite Key Resources

These are people I highly recommend and refer to often, products I have used and love - I give my stamp of approval.

Personal Trainer

Maria Faires RD, http://www.myactivenutrition.com/ 425.522.2496 maria@myactivenutrition.com
Master Personal Trainer, Registered Dietitian and Advanced Health & Fitness Specialist
One-on-one personal training and nutritional counseling

Hair Stylist

Lora Seaward Salon 425.402.8871 / lorahynes@frontier.com 
Bothell, WA
"Where it's all about you"

Clothing Stores

FARINAZ, www.farinaz.com / 425.453.1688
Bellevue Square, Bellevue WA
Farinaz Taghave designs fine shirt collections to celebrate a woman’s beauty and strength

Etiquette Coach

Arden Clise, www.cliseetiquette.com
Arden Clise is President of Clise Etiquette.
As a business etiquette trainer, speaker and coach she helps people confidently and comfortably navigate business situations.

Interior Design

Rebecca West, www.rebeccawestinteriors.com
Interior designer Rebecca West brings couples together on color, helps empty nesters embrace a new chapter, creates space for the newly-single to start again, and shows entrepreneurs a path to greater success.

In The Home

Silvia Peterson, SLP Consulting, LLC
425.241.0486 / sisi@sdpeterson.com
Making it operate better!  After 25 years of helping restaurants operate better, I am turning my attention to the COO of the household. Let me help you make your home operate better!

Life & Business Coach

Coach Debby Handrich, www.coachdebby.com

The Heroine’s Journey

Margaret Page, www.margaretpage.com
Business & Etiquette coaching, speaking, workshops. Be more professional, win more business.

How To Be Color Savvy with Buttercup Yellow

Color Savvy with BUTTERCUP

An unmellow yellow brightened the runways for spring...it will have the same mood-lifting effect on your wardrobe. HAPPY!

WHY I LOVE IT 

The hue is both fun, happy, and bold. It's a strong color and adds a freshness and artistic taste to your style.

HOW TO WEAR IT 

Soft fabrics make it more wearable. If it's too much to wear head-to-toe add a buttercup bag or accessory to make it look "spontaneous". For those who are thinking I don't do yellow...try it in a clear, ice yellow. Adding a  "buttercup" skirt or short, ground it with a neutral blouse or jacket to give you that uplifting feel but also wearable to the office.

 

 

PAIR IT WITH 

White and linen for a more understated feel. Classic navy lends a more refined look. But if you're a color extrovert and want a little more vibrancy punch it up with Kelly green.  Make-up - instead of going with a warm tint in lipstick, try adding an unexpected "perfect pink" matte lipstick or gloss.

The History of The Power Suit

The power suit.

Can it really give a woman power? I mean, at the end of the day, it’s just clothing. But in the workplace, a sharp matching suit and jacket with a pristine blouse underneath conveys an air of confidence. A power suit can be a suit of armor. But will it stay that way forever? Do women even need the power suit anymore? Let’s see how the power suit has evolved since its origin and where it’s heading. For Women’s History Month we thought we would take a look at this very important fashion movement.

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1920s - Chanel liberates women

So, how did it all start? We owe a lot of it to that classy French lady Coco Chanel. She was the one who freed women from those horribly restrictive corsets and gave us some room to actually move and breathe! According to the Emerald Street, the original power suit did not involve polyester and shoulder pads, but rather a knitted wool cardigan paired with a matching skirt. This came to be known as the Chanel suit. The suit was usually accessorized with a long string of pearls and was called the “woman’s new uniform.”

Hollywood icon Marlene Dietrich helped popularize the look with her slouchy stylish way of wearing the suit.

1931 - The first wide-shouldered suits

According to Vogue, the house of Rochas introduced the 20th century’s first wide-shouldered suits for women. Marcel Rochas says that his new silhouette is based on the costumes worn by Balinese dancers.

1942 - Kate the Great shows us that suits are for girls too

Katherine Hepburn showed us that a man’s suit could actually be quite feminine. The slouchier the better for this gorgeous tomboy. Her film Woman of the Year made the suit iconic and a wardrobe staple for working women.

1966 - The Suit Gets Sexy

It was this year that Yves Saint Laurent introduces le smoking, the “first male-inspired couture evening suit with pants for women.” Here is a picture of Bianca Jagger wearing the jacket. Of course, this sexy look wasn’t really appropriate for the office.

1977 - Shoulder Pads Enter the Picture

Suits with extreme shoulders became the new fashion rage. The bigger the better. It was all about power.

1980s - Power Dressing

We came into the decade of power clothes in the 80s. Giorgio Armani, Ralph Lauren, and Anne Klein all embraced the powersuit in their designs.

The film Working Girl (1988) also capitalized on the fashion of the decade. Melanie Griffith stars as a smart but undereducated secretary who can’t get ahead, partly because of her looks (big hair, big makeup, big fail). But when she realizes her classy but terrible boss is stealing her ideas, she gets back at her by stealing her wardrobe which includes those classic power suits and a haircut. It’s a Cinderella story, except the fairy godmother is a power wardrobe and the happy ending is a great job (and Harrison Ford).

Donna Karan and other designs started producing “softer suits” which often paired the power blazer with a skirt instead of pants.

1990s - The Softer Side

Madonna’s “Blond Ambition” tour in 1990 featured her wearing a pinstripe suit designed by Jean Paul Gaultier.  Pairing the suit with lacy camisoles and that famous cone-shaped bra she injected pieces of femininity into this masculine ensemble ushering a new, softer era of fashion. Working women started pairing lacy camisoles and floral silk shells with their pant and skirt suits.

With Casual Fridays introduced into offices, Vogue declares it the end of the power dressing era as long flowy dressings and leggings become fashionable.  Chanel designer Karl Lagerfeld says, “There is not only a change in fashion going on, but a change of mind.”

2000s - The Skirt of the Issue

In the second half of the 1990s we were introduced to the television character Ally McBeal (played by Calista Flockhart). A neurotic but successful lawyer wore the power suit blazer, but with a tiny skirt on the bottom. The length of her skirt drew so much attention that Time magazine famously ran a cover featuring Flockhart’s face and asking “Is Feminism Dead?” Power dressing may have been declared over, but clearly people are still paying attention to what women’s clothing says. And some women still look at a pants suit as a source of power. Think of Hillary Clinton—the poster child for the power suit. In 2007 she told David Letterman, “In my White House, we all know who wears the pantsuits.”

2012 - The Death of the Power Suit

According to The Wall Street Journal, the old-fashioned power suit look for professional women is over. The new power look for women includes a soft color (like pink), beading, prints, patterns, and very feminine tailoring—all of which were once considered fashion sins in the workplace. This fashion movement is being sported by women at the executive level who have the confidence to embrace a more integrated and diverse look. We are seeing this trend because there are just more women in these top positions who determine what is an appropriate look for the office.

There has been a shift in what is considered appropriate for women in the workplace. It has moved away from women trying to fit into the stiff, male-influenced power suit.

Christina Binkley of The Wall Street Journal writes, “The matched crimson suit—once deemed essential for a female executive—reflected an era when women tried, often clumsily, to fit into male molds. There was also a militant element to that office apparel.” She wrote of her days at Procter & Gamble in the 1980s when shewas informed by a boss that only the “secretaries” wore dresses.

The power suit “has had a total demise,” says Bridget Brennan, chief executive of Female Factor, a Chicago-based consulting firm that advises clients on marketing to women. Brennan thinks this is happening because women are more comfortable in their own skins and are owning how they dress..

2013 - The Future of Power Dressing

Women can wear pink, not just powerful red, in the office. They can wear florals and lace. They can wear leopard print shoes and flats. That’s right, flats can now be considered just as fierce as heels. Brinkley writes, ”Long stuck in the purgatory of casual wear, flats are suddenly being promoted for polished occasions. Flats sleek enough to be dress shoes were paired with tailored suits and even with eveningwear on the spring runways from Marc Jacobs to Giorgio Armani.”

In a recent issue of  The Hollywood Reporter, female executives in the Hollywood talked about the evolution of power dressing. It used to be all about the power suit but now more fashionable and feminine items are considered just as powerful.

“When I got to town in 1989,” says Blair Kohan, now a fashionably dressed partner at UTA, “everybody was wearing these suits. I had one from Ann Taylor. You didn’t get Armani until you got to the top. I see more expressiveness. Women no longer have to look tough because we are tough.”

Giorgio Armani, who made the powersuit famous, recently said that women no longer need to wear powerful-looking clothes in order to earn respect from their peers in the workplace.

“[Women] have edged out their standing in the world. Today, they don’t have to wear a suit jacket to prove their authority.”

Own Your Style with Confidence - Style Guide - Download Here

If you are ready to get your style figured out - let’s have a casual conversation so that I can get to know you and learn what’s keeping you stuck.

Schedule a time: https://www.annettebond.com/contact

What is your power look? Tell us in the comments!

Key Piece: The Striped Dress

The Striped Dress

Whether its soft and subtle or big and bold, this seems to signal warm weather and always feels fresh.  You can take a blue-striped classic dress anywhere.  Red and white accessories will always look right with it - but add one pattern you won't see on a flagpole, like this abstract-print scarf.  I personally love the idea of adding floral with my stripes to give it a 2014 Spring look.
 

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As you can see there are many options to accessorize "the stripe dress".  Take into consideration where you'll be wearing the dress - work, a party, date night, weekend function.  Do you want sophistication, sassy, dramatic, understated?  Then you can decide what the finishing touches will look like.  You can also add a more casual feel by adding your workhorse denim jacket and adding instant style with flat sandals and a straw bag.

Need HELP with your Spring Wardrobe?

Get in Touch! annette@annettebond.com

Key Piece: The White Jacket & Why It Works

"The White Jacket" 

The White Jacket is a key piece to add to your spring wardrobe.  I would never call this vanilla. It's fresh, cool, and as chic or classy as you want to be.  The perfect topping for a great accent pant or sheath work dress.

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WHY IT WORKS:

Tired of your winter black moto jacket?  Time to trade in for something a little lighter for spring.  Girl it up with some Dazzling Blue pants and chic Paloma gray booties.

HOW IT WORKS:  

Restraint is the secret to this ladylike look.  Nothing distracts from  the pristine silhouette - no collar or lapel, no scarf, no frills.  It's just pure shape and simple lines. Punctuate with black-and-white accents.

Introducing Stylin' Online Personal Shopping Service
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Have you ever been shopping and saw something you gotta have only to get home and have no idea how you’re going to coordinate your gotta have with the other pieces in your closet?  Then there is the shoe decision, the earring decision and the list goes on. You now have a “style dilemma”!

As an image and style consultant I assist women everyday one-on-one by offering color image consultations, closet optimization and personal shopping services.  Definitive Style is now offering Stylin' Online to assist you in coordinating a put together head-to-toe complete look - online.

Stylin' Online will create 3, 6, or 9 instant style outfit options  

No more spending hours wandering the department stores.  I will shop online for you; select missing pieces to coordinate with your style dilemma in order to reflect your personal style, body shape and coloring.  Definitive Style will create 3 head-to-toe complete looks for every one style dilemma.

My mission: Inspire women to unlock their inner sparkle and be their BEST self in the various roles of their life.

Stylin' Online is your answer. It’s simple and effortless. You will feel confident, classy and “put together”.  Your new looks will compliment your personal style, body shape, and individual coloring.


STYLIN' Online in 4 Simple Steps:

STEP 1 : Take a picture of yourself in your style dilemma

STEP 2 : Submit picture from style magazine of something you love

STEP 3 : Complete the questionnaire

STEP 4 : Decide how many outfit options you desire

  • One Style Dilemma, 3 head-to-toe outfit choices - $67
  • Two Style Dilemmas, 6 head-to-toe outfit choices - $127
  • Three Style Dilemmas, 9 head-to-toe outfit choices - $177
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Yes, I am ready and excited to begin. Email this stylin online 2014 QUESTIONNAIRE to annette@annettebond.com

LAST – your outfit options will be in your inbox within 5 business days, guaranteed!

 

PICTURED: 3 HEAD-TO-TOE OUTFIT CHOICES!

Style Dilemma: The Burgundy Peplum Top

 

Spring: A Season of Colorful Equilibrium
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"This season, consumers are looking for a state of thoughtful, emotional and artistic equilibrium".

Leatrice Eiseman, Executive Director of the Pantone Color Institute

Placid Blue, like a picture-perfect, tranquil and reassuring sky, induces a sense of peaceful calmness, while Violet Tulip, a romantic, vintage purple, evokes wistful nostalgia. Hemlock, a summery, ornamental green, provides a decorative touch that's very different from the greens of recent seasons.  Pair any of these versatile pastels with a bolder hue for an au courant look.

Sand, a lightly toasted and amiable neutral, conjures images of the beach and carefree days of summer.  Paloma serves as a quintessential neutral, interesting enough to be worn alone or combined with any color for sophisticated poise.

Cayenne, a high-pitched red, adds a dash of spicy heat to neutrals, and heightens the excitement when mixed with Freesia, a blazing yellow that is sure illuminate wardrobe this season.  Celosia Orange, an optimistic, spontaneous hue.

The palette is brought full circle with Radiant Orchid, the 2014 Pantone Color of the Year.  And Dazzling Blue, a scintillating, polar opposite to Placid Blue.