I knew something wasn't quite right. I needed a professional opinion.
She looked over my handout, called me and said, "some of it is good but much of this doesn't sound like you". You would never speak to me about my style like that.
My heart sunk, I knew it was true. I was trying to please the event organizer and wasn't being 100% authentic to who Annette Bond was.
Debby told me to "stand confident" in my content.
Because when I do, I will speak from my heart about what I believe and teach.
What I love about Debby, is she knows me. She wants me to reveal the Annette Bond definitive writing & speaking Style.
Debby also shared, that while the event organizer was well-intended with her guidelines and suggestions, I needed to discern if what she suggested was elevating or diminishing my style of speaking.
What I realized, Debby was coaching me on what I literally share with my clients. I thought dahhhh.
We can get consumed of what others think of us that we lose sight of who we really are.
So the moral of the story is...you need to listen to yourself. Know your strengths and stand confidently and strong in who you are. Trust yourself.
Feeling that sense of comfort that you are in your element speaks volumes.
You can only then "Reveal Your Radiance" for others to see the beauty of who you really are.
As I tell my clients, I want you to feel sooo confident in your outfit that you forget about what you're wearing so you can go out and do what you do best.
I'm your Debby when it comes to personal style.
We all need those special people around us that make us better.